When Weight Starts Affecting Your Child’s Health, It’s Time to Act
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Updated: 7 hours ago
When Your Child’s Weight Raises Questions and You Want Support That Feels Safe
Maybe your child seems to get tired more easily than their peers. Perhaps clothing sizes are shifting more quickly, or your child has become more self-conscious. As a parent, you may be unsure whether it is time to take action or how to bring up the topic without hurting their feelings. At Joyful Seeds Paediatric & Development Clinic in Bukit Timah, we meet families in this moment, with understanding, not blame.
Childhood obesity is more common today than ever before, and it can affect not just physical health, but confidence and emotional wellbeing too. Our role is to help you make sense of what is happening and to walk alongside you in creating habits that feel realistic and kind.
What Is Childhood Obesity
Obesity in children refers to a body weight that is significantly above the recommended range for their age and height. But we know that weight alone does not define a child. That is why we look closely at growth patterns, lifestyle, medical history and how your child is feeling day to day.
Many different factors can play a role, including:
High-calorie diets, oversized portions or frequent snacking
Low physical activity or prolonged screen time
Family history of metabolic or weight-related conditions
Emotional eating linked to stress, boredom or comfort
Hormonal imbalances or rare medical conditions
Understanding the cause helps us work with your family—not just on weight, but on whole-child wellness.
What You Might Notice
Sometimes the signs of obesity appear slowly over time. Other times, changes in activity, eating or mood may signal that your child is facing challenges.
Physical Changes
You may notice your child gaining weight quickly, outgrowing clothing sizes or having difficulty keeping up with others in physical play. Some children sweat more, get tired more easily or prefer seated activities.
Social or Emotional Differences
Children may avoid PE lessons, feel shy about their appearance or withdraw from peer groups. They may express low self-esteem or become more sensitive to teasing or remarks.
Subtle Health Shifts
You might notice poor sleep, snoring, joint pain or skin rashes. Some children experience mood changes or fluctuations in appetite that can go unnoticed until they begin to affect daily life.
How We Support Your Child at Joyful Seeds
At Joyful Seeds Paediatric & Development Clinic, we offer care that is calm, non-judgemental and child-centred. We begin with listening—both to your child’s experience and to your concerns as a parent.
Your child’s care may include:
A careful review of their growth chart and physical health
Discussion around meals, snacks, activity levels and daily routine
Screening for related health conditions if needed
Emotional support around body image and food relationships
Positive, achievable goal-setting tailored to your child’s pace
Ongoing follow-up to support your family’s progress with care and encouragement
Dr Charmaine Teo and Dr Martha Liu bring deep experience in caring for children with weight and lifestyle concerns. Their support is grounded in empathy, education and partnership.
Supporting Parents Without Pressure or Shame
We know that navigating concerns about weight can be filled with emotion. At Joyful Seeds, we never assign blame. Instead, we empower families with knowledge, realistic strategies and compassionate care. Our approach encourages healthy habits without focusing on appearance, and fosters self-worth in every child.
If you are unsure where to start or how to speak to your child about these changes, we are here to help you find the words and the way forward.
Let Us Walk This Path with You
If you are concerned about your child’s weight, confidence or health, you do not have to figure it out alone. At Joyful Seeds Paediatric & Development Clinic in Bukit Timah, we offer supportive care that nurtures body, mind and heart. Together, we can take small steps toward a stronger, healthier future, one that feels possible, sustainable and kind.
